Are you or your partner struggling with BPD?

Are you or your partner struggling with BPD?

Working as a relationship therapist, I often see clients with Borderline Personality Disorders (BPD) both in an individual and in a couples treatment.   My individual clients with BPD/BPD traits find me after years of difficult and unsuccessful relationships, feeling...
What Does It Mean To Be Accountable In A Relationship?

What Does It Mean To Be Accountable In A Relationship?

“You are not responsible for other’s feelings.” A lot of my clients recite this quote to me when I am doing EFT (Emotionally Focused Therapy) sessions with my couples. I agree. I believe that all of us are responsible for our own experience, as I talked about in my...
7 Different Ways To Tell If You Are Being Gaslighted

7 Different Ways To Tell If You Are Being Gaslighted

Are you being gaslighted? -7 different ways to tell if you are being gaslighted.   We talked about gaslighting briefly in my last blog post (5 ways to set healthy boundaries in romantic relationships). I wanted to dive in a little deeper with the topic in this...